A Void in My Heart

Someone I have known for a while, decided she needed to share the following with me… “my impression is that there’s an important void left by someone in your heart. I truly wish either you get over it, or, if it is best for you, you get this special person back.” Clearly implying that I […]

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Thanks Dad…

2009 when the girls were still a part of my parent’s life. My Dad, Sheldon Rubin (yes Sheldon/Shelly… the scene in “When Harry met Sally” didn’t make it easy for me to look at my Dad for a while, LOL), taught me the value of friendship, at all levels, and how important it is to be […]

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AM I READY? ~via @PurpleClvr

For the first time in many years, I feel my heart opening up to a long-term relationship by Ted Rubin Sunday, August 18, 2013 My divorce marked a significant change in my life. My world had revolved around my family. I worked, played, socialized and dreamed with them always in mind. Although my marriage was a difficult […]

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Embrace the "Moments"

This might not seem like much to many, but that Tour de France bracelet is the first gift my 18yr old has given me in 5 years. She brought it back from France. Brought a tear to my eye when she handed it to me, told the story about seeing the Tour riders in Nice […]

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Ted Rubin "Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain."

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